All is far in love and war.What can that saying really be saying?Are they implying there may be something similar between the two?  I am not sure if that is what they are saying but there are similarities between the two.

The things that are the same I guess are when the two turns from love into war.There may still be love between the couple but a lot of times they will act as if they are in a war.  I have seen this first hand doing couples therapy San Diego.A couple that once used to be loving now are constantly in battle.  It is my goal to bring peace to the two.And to bring back that once great love between the two.

So what are a few signs of trouble to look for?One of the huge signs to look out for is a lack of communication.Or should I put it this way, no communication.For practically all relationships, knowing how to communicate is essential.  Since it is key, if as a couple you start to sense less communication that is a sign.It is a sign or warning of trouble.  Whether I am doing couples counseling or  marriage counseling in San Diego I see it all the time.  After all if you can’t communicate, every little thing can become a big problem.  Proper communication helps avoid that.

So as a family counselor San Diego one of the biggest things I do is try to teach the couple how to communicate.  One of the biggest keys to communication is listening.  People think of communication as talking to each other.But truthfully if you are unable to listen very well, you won’t really be able to understand each other.  So by helping the couple listen better their communication improves greatly.

By being able to spot this sign, a couple will be able to better know that trouble may be starting.Now if the couple can spot this problem early in their relationship, they might be able to avoid some serious problems. From what I have witnessed, the optimum way to solve some problems is to completely avoid them.But if you don’t notice it early, the way to solve it best is to learn how to effectively communicate.Sounds basic but what it can do is have a major role in the problem.

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